Ah, I know the feeling (kind of).
My hair dries, tho...I have naturally curly hair so my only option is to let it air dry and curl.
But I have to plan to wake up early.
I know that cold drying it can help or if you have an attachment to the blow dryer, it'll also help (at least when I get my hair done they do that to speed up the drying process).
But I've always stuck to naturally drying it.
When I was a child, my mom would blow dry my hair and it would get hella poofy and frizzy and yeah, just stopped doing that altogether
Maybe cut it shorter? like not super short, but maybe shoulder length?