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Matched with this girl on Tinder, she's quick to invite me over to smoke, nothing materializes out of that, and then I stop texting her because she's a flake and I got a new job yadayada. Anyways days later she randomly gives me her snapchat and I'm like, 'okay, whatever' and add her because who gives a shit. Talk for a lil bit, nothing crazy, but she invites me over again two different times and I turn down both because quarantine but also because I'm plastered both times.

She texts me today that she's 'sorry for leading me on' (which implies I gave a shit and actually tried), and that she's engaged. Then she removes me and all that. Her profile had no mention or evidence of a fiance.

I got the idea in my head to message the fiance on instagram and outing her, but I dunno. Maybe they're into some cuck shit or something. What say you?

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Doubt whatever you're attempting to do would ruin her marriage. Theres clearly already problems and her fiance probably already found out and gave her an ultimatum. You dont usually go from casually dating someone while simultaneously browsing tindr to all of a sudden I have fiance.

 

Plus if you dont care as much as you say why go through all the trouble

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2 minutes ago, cyberbully said:

LOL, but why tho?

>.> she hurt his feelings?

 

Is the only explanation i can come up with for all this extra effort 

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1 minute ago, Vamped said:

>.> she hurt his feelings?

 

Is the only explanation i can come up with for all this extra effort 

Well, that's obvious, and it's funny because I'm kinda reflecting on some shit in the same vein, but at the end of the day.....It's just not ever worth it.  I've spent my share of time thinking about a chick who probably never let me cross her mind again.  It's just easier to move on to the next one.

But I am a jaded cynic in some respects...Just let her get married....Find solace in the fact that it'll probably suck for both of them.  No need to pull the strings.

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16 minutes ago, Vamped said:

>.> she hurt his feelings?

 

Is the only explanation i can come up with for all this extra effort 

Because she said she lead me on, which doesn’t hurt my feelings but does irk my ego slightly. Plus it just seems like a nice thing to do, let people actually know the person they’re getting in with.

 

also not sure how messaging someone equates to “all this extra effort” but sure, bud

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1 hour ago, Opium said:

But I was wondering why she would even tell me she had a fiance, so them finding out makes sense I guess.

He probably found out, or she had extreme guilt. Either way I probably wouldn’t go out of my way to say anything. If something more happened maybe...

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3 hours ago, Opium said:

Because she said she lead me on, which doesn’t hurt my feelings but does irk my ego slightly. Plus it just seems like a nice thing to do, let people actually know the person they’re getting in with.

 

also not sure how messaging someone equates to “all this extra effort” but sure, bud

Sure indeed 

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Every marriage is like a dumpster fire. It smells, you can't put it out because there's a couple tires in there. Just gotta let it burn itself out.

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