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My first boyfriend and best friend broke off his engagement to this girl recently.


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I just found out about this, was in the last few months. After talking to some mutual friends about this particular guy, who I have always had feelings for since we were both kids. I am extremely tempted to try to get with him again, but I fear it could not happen at this point for many reasons. It's kind of like old wounds have been reopened for something I thought I was over a while ago... not to mention I thought he was certainly getting married soon to this girl.

I don't know why my life is so neurotic and complicated sometimes and yet it seems like there is no reason for it to be because I am very stagnant in taking action to better myself and/or my relationships with others.

Just needed to get that off my chest.

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10 minutes ago, Drunkenwarrior said:

Never dig through the garbage for what you threw away, it's by the road for a reason

Actually, I never threw him away, we continue to be friends to this day.... He left me for a girl, and then left for the military without much good by. He told me he didn't think he was good enough for me, and didn't want to hurt me. There is alot of various complex emotions that go into it.... all of which suck. I'm just surprised that I still haven't gotten over it completely, what the fuck is wrong with me.

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21 minutes ago, Sandstone said:

He left me for a girl, and then left for the military without much good by.  Then it's done...he obviously made his choice.

 

I'm just surprised that I still haven't gotten over it completely, what the fuck is wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with you, you're human

Seriously though, don't entertain the idea, it will only end badly.

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10 minutes ago, Drunkenwarrior said:

Seriously though, don't entertain the idea, it will only end badly.

But... but.... ok. :(

Do you know how hard it is to find decent and even semi-open gay/bi males in Alabama, at least without surfing grindr or going to bars and even then quality.......? :( 

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4 minutes ago, Sandstone said:

But... but.... ok. :(

Do you know how hard it is to find decent and even semi-open gay/bi males in Alabama, at least without surfing grindr or going to bars and even then quality.......? :( 

Do you know how hard it is to find a seemingly rational female who doesn't already have kids and expect you to pay for EVERYTHING

 

Keep your chin up sandy ol boy....heroes never win the day without facing a dragon or two

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4 hours ago, Sandstone said:

Actually, I never threw him away, we continue to be friends to this day.... He left me for a girl, and then left for the military without much good by. He told me he didn't think he was good enough for me, and didn't want to hurt me. There is alot of various complex emotions that go into it.... all of which suck. I'm just surprised that I still haven't gotten over it completely, what the fuck is wrong with me.

Duuuuuuuude. No. Just...no.

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11 hours ago, Sandstone said:

Actually, I never threw him away, we continue to be friends to this day.... He left me for a girl, and then left for the military without much good by. He told me he didn't think he was good enough for me, and didn't want to hurt me. There is alot of various complex emotions that go into it.... all of which suck. I'm just surprised that I still haven't gotten over it completely, what the fuck is wrong with me.

I'll never understand human relationships

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