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You gotta learn how to care about shitty people without making yourself vulnerable. You might care about someone, but that doesn't mean there's anything you can do for them. When that happens, provide a disclaimer if they'll accept it, otherwise ignore the individual. At any rate, save your energy for someone you can help.

No, I don't. You just have bad reasoning & grammar skills. (Not your fault) That plays into what said earlier about how that event would be more likely with a male P.O., did you read that post? Slow on the uptake, there...

I mean, there's an extent to which I can identify with doing what I feel is the right thing only to get shit all over for it.

It's just not good stuff. Didn't happen all at once, there was a lot of trying and failing and telling myself I'm going to before I finally, actually stopped. I'm glad I was able to manage it myself without anyone hovering over my shoulder. That always makes stuff like that harder. For me at least.

I wouldn't violate any of the conditions, but I would feel more inclined to express myself, which would almost certainly be taken the wrong way which would lead to additional conditions. Drag the process out for no reason. Portland isn't all that bad... I think they're aware enough of the dynamic to try and get this part over with as soon as possible. They know how I'll respond to the prospect of prison time and they want to avoid giving me the chance the make those points about how prison actually works.

That's the issue. They never spend much time investigating people's actual motives. They're great at making assumptions based on profiles and not getting to know people so maybe they could get to know what to do with them that will actually be constructive. The criminal justice system is total sham. They have a pretty dispicable "when in doubt, throw it out" policy. You can't call a place a "correctional facility" when they're explicitly designed to turn people into worse criminals when they're released than when they went in. If we want to correct these types of behavior we definitely don't want to take a mixed bag of fucked off people, people who could have gotten better otherwise and a few decent people and toss them in an isolated environment together, they will enable each other's toxic behavior, learn eachother's toxic strategies and make each other worse over time. The guards see this as entertainment. If you shrug about it and go "that's just how it is" I will bitch slap you through the internet because this shit makes your life worse as much as everyone else's.

Here you're deflecting with a incoherent derogatory zinger. It's okay to be wrong, dude. That's just an occupational hazard of being human. Chill. 😜

Because I'm neurotic. I hate men. What's the opposite of misogyny? I think I have that

I'd have to have like, magical fucking wizard powers to make that go away fast.

They went with a female because they think that'll make it harder for me to say no.

Also did what I had to do to remove myself from a toxic situation. I'm doing pretty great, if I slice it up right.

Oh yeah, I don't have a job and a mountain of other crap I have to do. I was glued to the screen agonizing over how to respond that entire time, excellent projection assessment.

lol

YOU

I need at least 8

Go on

Cute

I suppose if it appropriated other's bodies this would be plausible

I don't get it...

NO, I AM LAZY

They're wrinkly, they smell, grey hair, in constant physical and possibly mental pain... I guess that describes a lot of 20-something meth heads, so let's arbitrarily say like, over 50

Eh, we'd have to do an actual case study. ;3

2009? 2008? I think TheEpiphanizer was an 08 account. Not sure, around then though.

Xenophobic at the least. Some are old school anthropologists and stuff like that, but not often.

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