When i talk ill of my childhood my mom brings up shit she did when i was 3 that i have no recollection of.
If you ever have a kid remember, they will forget everything before age 4. Memories dont set in until 4 and then they are still hazy. I took my daughter to disney at 4 and she has slim memories of it.
My mom pretty much stop putting in any effort at all when i was 8. I mean ZERO effort. I dont even remember her or even know where she was from age 8 to 17 lol