id be on your side if it wasnt sexy stuff. he just sees her as a sex object. i had an "admirer" who would watch me work out and then pay my gym bill. THATS ok... if you gonna stalk me pay a fucking bill...put new tires on my car...leave $100 bills under my car seat...shit like that. not lingerie youll never see me in that gives me the heebeejeebees as i throw it in the trash