one person did like my profile who was trans, while i was very flattered i told them politely that i wasn't interested in anything more than being friends. they stopped messaging me at that point
i've been on a bunch of dating websites over the years and tried speed dating. i couldn't get any dates. after a while of doing it i got depressed and just stopped. only recently did i reopen my okcupid account and i'm kind of sorry i did.
i know i'm meant to be alone. i'm open to the opportunity but i've also resigned myself to the fact that it's just not happening. i mostly got over it after college though so i'm not as bitter about it as i used to be.
i've been nagged by nearly everyone i've ever known for my entire life up until i started living alone. i get peace and quiet. i do get asked why i haven't really looked around ( i mean i have but not much effort) and i just like the quiet and the ability to plan my own life.