try Christian Mingle
I know you're not Chrisitian but they only allow hetero pairings which is super important to you these days so it's perfect
also I realize I come off a a jerk to you
but you come off as one to me as well so...It'd be more simple just to add you to my ignore list(''''), you aren't annoying in the same "I wish you'd be banned" way that TIC is but in a "this guy is consistently hateful to me so it makes sense to just avoid him" way