Recap: part 1 was if you don't have what basically amounts to 1 on 1 therapy counseling sessions, it aint real. Now fer part 2
Fights: You gotta fight. No one fights you because they don't care. Fighting is the way you iron out the bumps in the road (your differences) along the path to each other. When people stop fighting its because theyve given up..their heart not in it..their head not in the game and thats usually because theyre thinking about something or someone else and you no longer matter to them.