fuggstop Posted October 12, 2019 Share Posted October 12, 2019 So i was pregnant and single at tmobile with no boyfriend and husband in sight. I never talked about myself (hard to believe huh) but people still made their assumptions. I got pregnant in feb right after my dad died and nervously interviewed with tmobile pregnant. At that time tmobile was considered one of the best jobs you could get in Charleston. They hired very few people. My died was gone, he left me money but it was dwindling and i had no money coming in. I hid i was pregnant and u couldn't tell at all cuz i stay chubby. So i was hired. I didnt want to disclose my condition but i was really sick and needed accomodations because i threw up a lot. So i told people i was preggie thinking theyd be happy...but they werent.. they were mean and jealous. This one lady happily proclaimed i was "likely to miscarry"...she said this to our pregnant trainer....who was just as pregnant as me and really upset her. Just to give you an idea how nasty people were. At this time id been seeing mh for two years. I was supposed to stop fucking him cuz i had placenta previa but i didnt. I finally had to stop seeing him tho cuz his fuckboi mind games didnt mix well with my pregnancy difficulties. Plus he refused to bring me food like all my other fuckbois..so fuck him, right? So i didnt have mh whose mere existence always had me smiling in people's faces while i got treated like shit...he was just a phone call away but he refused to talk to me..would just say "have you had your baby?had your baby yet?" Instead of having a convo So i was not getting any and sick all the time...and people being shit...i was hooorrrrible to EVERYONE LOL Then a possible baby daddy baby momma came to work at my job and spreaded rumors for some reason i let run rampant because i REALLY didnt want to talk to anyone. I wasnt going to get any pay during my maternity leave because i didnt work long enuff...so i took on the WORST possible schedule so i could get shift differential. That means i was a top performing rep working with mostly bottom performers. Shitty people who didnt care abt their work. At tmobile..they publish everyones stats...and boy this people scrunched up their faces at my out performing them consistently The following things they did to ME ..a pregnant girl 1. A young new ratchet girl joined our team. She was straight stupid. They poisoned her against me and since she was so stupid, these people knew they could get her to do dumb shit to attack me...things they were smart enough to do because they didnt want to lose their job. She was bad at it tho. Anything she tried to do to upset me i would turn back on her and make the one or two coworkers on that team that liked me laugh at her. They would move her to another team...not sure why...but shed go away. 2. My supervisor also didnt like me. He would try to write me up for bull. He accused me of somehow being a bad rep because i knew tech support level stuff i didnt bother teaching the team (like i knew how to unlock iphones and make them capabe of getting pic messages...back before tmo officially had iphones). One day he said i should have kept my legs closed. I would go to HR because of this. 3. A coworker during a group meeting would joke about taking me out back and shooting me. I would go to HR abt this but i didnt name any names. Hr would just make things worse. Then all shit went to hell when my baby came out white LOL Id go on maternity leave and come back. Another girl was pregnant and they had a baby shower for her...something i didnt even think to ask for...and they would openly say they purposely didnt want to spend any money on me or my kid. They behaved this way towards me without me even barely engaging them. I would move to a much better high performing team but my new supervisor knew all abt everything that happened on my previous team and he would blame me for all of it. Lesson learned: its impossible to be single, beautiful and pregnant around black people lol they act a damn fool. Like or downvote i dun care if u read all of this! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neko Posted October 12, 2019 Share Posted October 12, 2019 Dude, if lateral bullying was the problem it's a reportable offense. Plus you didn't balance the story. Just fleshed it out with what others did to you instead of getting close to what you all did together. It makes it sound like you did nothing but your job and never spoke to anyone while they beat on a pregnant womans emotionally. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggstop Posted October 13, 2019 Author Share Posted October 13, 2019 1 hour ago, Neko said: Dude, if lateral bullying was the problem it's a reportable offense. Plus you didn't balance the story. Just fleshed it out with what others did to you instead of getting close to what you all did together. It makes it sound like you did nothing but your job and never spoke to anyone while they beat on a pregnant womans emotionally. Pretty much yeah. I literally didn't talk to them at all and i guess they were offended by it Look i was unmedicated and always in a lot of emotional pain and turmoil so i was locked up within myself and i avoided people because as you can see...they just made things worse. It didnt help that i felt ill the whole time and really didnt want to even be there so i had zero patience for people i looked at as if they were adult children So i guess my fault in it all was being distant and having a great disdain for them....i was happy and talking abt my pregnancy a lot in the beginning by that all shutdown when the lady said the miscarriage comment. *shrug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggstop Posted October 13, 2019 Author Share Posted October 13, 2019 Also neko thanks for reading all that and commenting. Appreciated. Ive never old anyone all this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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