i didn't meet her on tinder THAT'S WHAT WEIRDS ME OUT. i've known her for a while but we never really spoke all that often before. that's part of what weirds me out. at least with Tinder i know what to expect since i've had a few okcupid/tinder dates i've had pure irl dates too but not for a long ass time, pure irl is incredibly rare. pure irl + it going as well as it is has not happened before