death_by_motorboat Posted November 18, 2017 Share Posted November 18, 2017 and they judge you for it like you are some kind of narc....? if their secret is so cool why didnt they keep it first of all, since when is being a victim so damn cool, and why am i expected to be cool with it? stop spreading your dirty laundry, amirite? on the other hand, there is the simple fact i wish i was a better friend to them. that i had all the secrets and answers and i could make their problem go away. i wish i could be the one they need in their life instead of the one they feel to be a burden. i dont like having to decide between my friends and their perversions... or deny myself the evils that i need to survive because i need to judge you, (making me a hypocrite) it just isnt right to anyone of us involved. if i acted like i could solve it, i would be even more a liar; possibly genuine concern or sympathy, empathy, or humanity is what keeps the door open to possible solutions. going the direction that you hurting yourself is a cool secret, makes cool look bad. im sorry if i wronged anyone tldr; you know when you decide someone is a victim,.... and they hate you for it... OMG that is the serious suck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenigundam Posted November 18, 2017 Share Posted November 18, 2017 I don't like the whole victim thing because the girl who got the TRO against me four years ago said she was the victim of harassment, so we need to update our dictionaries IMHO, especially the legal ones, which are especially flawed and stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 18, 2017 Author Share Posted November 18, 2017 11 minutes ago, Zenigundam? said: I don't like the whole victim thing because the girl who got the TRO against me four years ago said she was the victim of harassment, so we need to update our dictionaries IMHO, especially the legal ones, which are especially flawed and stupid. i think trying to help sometimes is just causing more problems. i think giving up is easier. when the good lord steps in or a miracle happens, all the secrets of man will be turned out and open for everyone to see. no one can hide their shame. i just want them to know it hurts me to see my friends acting like their lives dont matter. i want them to know i dont know how to help. i dont know how to be a friend. legally, Zeni? legally i think im in the clear overall in life. i cant see ever making another mistake that will put me on the wrong side of the law. i smoke pot and party when i can. but i dont do things i think are undeserved or evil. nothing jail-time worthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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