Kagome-san101

Amen to THAT! most criminal activity involving guns happens where the gun laws are MORE strict!

why?? p.s. congrats on rank up

I also hadn't thought of that either

OH HAHAHAHAH good grief SEE!!! this is how innocent I am! even though I am a sexual being, as we all are, I never think of these things! I just think people think like I do :D

EXACTLY!!! THIS!!!!!!!!!! just because I have anxiety and want to be able to protect myself and my house doesn't mean I'm going to go around misusing a firearm! I have taken the course, I know proper firearm control, I know to leave the first chamber empty (in revolvers, which I prefer) and I know that you should to maim, not to kill! I don't want to kill someone, just defend myself if I need to!

LOL WELL yes packing heat oh my goodness FLUFF THOSE BANGS, MOLLY lol, you are right! I wish I had a pistol, even just a small little .22!

you're right I'm going to call Ron tomorrow and tell him the phone conversation, even though it was short, I'm going to tell him at this point it's smarter for me to report everything so that there is a paper trail just in case, even though I hope I won't ever had to need it

where do you live, I'm moving and getting out of this shit show

the way you put it made me feel like I should have called him immediately fuuuuuck my life, I will call him first think tomorrow as soon as I get into work you're right

yes this is very true! so I can prepare and anticipate

a pink, jelly materials ring that goes around a penis that has a tiny vibrator in it

thank you I don't know what further action to take I don't want to be axe murdered :::

but HE should have to move ::: ::: ::: ::: ::: I like my life! ::: ::: :::

do you think that I may have grounds for a restraining order? he hasn't laid hands on me (yet, hopefully never) I appreciate your input, do you think I should wait until he contacts me again to then go to the police again? fortunately I have the cop's personally phone number

since I live in CT it's harder to get a pistol permit, I actually applied and they denied me because of medication I used to take BUT, I haven't taken it for over a year, so I think that I am going to reapply soon!

so here is part of the reason I don't lock my car, I'm very afraid that he's going to come IN and give me said "care package" but I know that you're right, that I should just lock my car and that be that

I know, I was ASTOUNDED he called I thought it was okay and then BAM he hits me with an angry call should I tell my cop friend that he called??

truthfully I hadn't even thought about that, I just came back on to see if anyone had advice and now I'm reading it all! should I take it down?

I'm keeping his gifts in their original packaging, just in case I need them as physical proof of his stalking HOWEVER.... I wish I COULD sell for profit, instead of keeping this disgusting stuff in my house hahah

I don't know what would be worse, to be honest! a man in the shadows waits for his opportunity to pounce at least this guy is ballsy and idiotic enough to do it to my face, so that way I may be able to prevent said attack!

you are a very sweet man <3

I want to see eggs with legs! they sound so cute!!! also I didn't know that a tarantula wasn't a spider! is it just a sub genre of arachnid?? what makes they different?? ALSO I didn't know that they have little hairs that make you itchy! I learned a lot! WOO! I still don't understand new or old world, but that's okay!

*this is a really long one, if you don't want to read it that is completely fine, I just needed to get this off my best). some of you may have read my post about what a man left in my car last week. (for those of you that don't, a Victoria's Secret bag with a pink lace thong, pink boy shorts, and a pink garter.) today he came in. handed me a big y gold coin, as he always does. (or rather, TRIED to, because I couldn't look him in the face.) and as he was leaving he said "I left something in your car for you." again. I walked out my car, see a brown paper bag, then walked back in to my office. a regular comes in, Wayne, and I ask him to go get it for me because I don't want to touch it. He gets it and comes back, and opens it for me. (I asked him to.) a night shirt/gown that says "cranky but cute" a baby blue lace thong a white garter and a fucking pink cock ring. immediate panic attack, IMMEDIATE. I wanted to throw up, but I had Wayne place them out so I could take a picture, (if I ever needed evidence) and proceeded to try not to throw up. I called my boss and told him. He said he would take care of it and call him when he got back in to the office. (btw, fun fact, I'm at work alone like... all the time. and stalker knows that. he came in when it was just me, hence why I didn't tell him to stop doing what he's doing, because I was terrified he would get angry and retaliate. he's EASILY twice my size. I would like to keep living, thank you.) When my boss got back, he ended up calling one of our state troopers. The guy is absolutely wonderful, he is a VERY sweet cop, I went to school with his kids, he's been a customer of ours for SO many years) So he did a drive by to talk to the stalker. He told me that he was very nice, that he was gentle on the guy, that he just said that it was inappropriate, you shouldn't do that, blah blah blah. He told me it went VERY well, that stalker was receptive and said "oh geez, I was just kidding! did she call you?" Cop replied "no, Ricci did, she told him about it and he wanted to give me a call to let me know." But he was VERY kind about the whole situation. Cop told me if it happens again, he will go back and NOT be kind, and tell him, basically, that files will be charged if this persists. I thought all was good and dandy, like a weight had lifted off my shoulders. I thought that if he came in, and really DID feel sorry, and apologized, I would absolutely forgive him. (That's just in my nature. I'm a Christian, hello.) THEN. stalker guy calls and VERY AGITATED said "this is d_____ s______. tell Ricci to cancel my 3 cord of wood. I'll get it elsewhere." and hung up. Now, I understand that maybe he's just mad because he's embarrassed. maybe he's mad that Ricci didn't call him and talk to him himself. But I think, most of all, he's pissed about the rejection. And now I'm even MORE terrified. This is exactly why women seldom report these kinds of issues. Because we are scared that the abuser (in my case harasser) will get angry and retaliate. Or hit us or strangle us. Or spread lies about us. Or rape us. Or maybe even kill us. I'm really scared to go to work and have my boss leave tomorrow. I don't know what to do. I'm lost. So I'm trying to find the answer at the bottom of this bottle, and it seems to be getting further and further away.

OMG that's PERFECT!!!!!!

YES PLEASE! I have a lot of pillows, but I end up kicking them all off the bed because I'm a violent sleeper with that said... bring a helmet